Failure and Loss.

Does failure fail us? When i think of my failures, i used to think i was the only one who failed. And a feeling of immense embarrasment and self humiliation overcame me, always. A failure is an inability to achieve a desired outcome from our lack of sufficient focus, confidence and discipline. A failure can be in a project, in a desired skill, can be in and mostly in a relationship and even in a small routine. The truth about failure is it makes us withdrawn and lonely in that only we can sympathize with ourself. But every failure is also a reminder that we have to correct ouselves firmly, prune, refine and review where we stand and what we want to do. If life gives a chance that is. Simmer down, destiny.